Friendship

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"Friends ! The Relation"

What are friends? A person with you during thick and thin.  That sublime bonding is Friendship! 

You cannot really understand what is friendship, it is simply a bonding. It is the meeting or understanding of two strangers who then slowly turn into family. The bond of friendship is something divine. You feel special in it. It's not love but something even more special. A friend is there to admonish you, laugh with you, criticize you and be happy with you.  The only person who will not always agree with you but will also be critical of you on your face.

May be your friend won't be there in your happy days but they are always there standing besides you in your bad days - that is friendship. They support you when there is no one else supporting you. Friendship is understanding each other. It can be anyone; your father, mother, brother or even your grandparents. It can also be a stranger, your classmate, a neighbour!

You understand true friendship, when they become a part of your family. You share with them every small happenings in life. They become so important to you, that time without them becomes tough.  You are happy when they are happy, you are sad when they are sad. Friendship is when they become your parent, teacher or advisor. You approach them in your difficult times. You trust them more than anyone in the world. 

~Friends are the chosen family in our life.

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