What makes you unique?

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Haven't each one of you, reading this blog tried to fit into the crowd, once in your lifetime? Be honest with me! I think we all have tried to be the same as everyone at least once. Well, if you are still being a part of "fitting into the society" mindset, I think you should step out of it.

In today's world everyone wishes to be one of the people in the crowd. When a person is inspired by someone, they try to replicate every single thing they do. In my opinion, I feel that if you are motivated by an individual, you should follow their path, the efforts they put in getting to that point, but copying their whole lifestyle is just senseless. If you do something like that you are not going to reach anywhere because no matter what you do there is no such thing as the second best. 

If you try to be the same as everyone, then what is the point of creating you? The thing is that being similar as everyone is just boring, but if you bring out something different, a unique feature then that is what makes you special. For eg: If you travel to the same place every single year then slowly and steadily the essence of that place will go as you are bored of going there but suddenly if you are taken to a new place then, imagine the happiness!

It is really easy to be like someone else because the path is already made, all you have to do is walk on it but, when you create your own path then, comes out the difference. You should always be out of the box something that everyone will notice. People will recognize you because you are different. 

But... how to be different? Well, each one of us is unique. We all have that one quality which makes us different from everyone else. All you have to do in this is to search for that different characteristic in you. Believe me, it is not that hard. If you wish to be known you have to stand out. It is important to break those societal norms that hold you back from being the best, it is necessary for you to be what you are. The world has a lot of normal people and lack of unique ones. So be different and think of what makes you unique?

Comments

  1. Unknown27 June 2021 at 19:46

    Nice.
    "Nobody is superior, nobody is inferior, but nobody is equal either. People are simply unique, incomparable. You are you, I am I.”

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  2. Balaram Mahapatra27 June 2021 at 21:49

    So much wisdom from one so young! Incredible. Every word the authoress has written is so true. Thoroughly enjoyed. Way to go T. Looking forward to your next blog.

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  3. Satish Menon28 June 2021 at 00:19

    So eloquent...Reminds me of a shayari...

    खुद को भी कभी
    महसूस कर लिया करो...!

    कुछ रौनकें
    खुद से भी होती हैं...!!

    - Anonymous

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  4. venky80828 June 2021 at 06:37

    Good Going. Keep it up. 👏👏👏

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  5. Baalah28 June 2021 at 07:31

    Very Thought-provoking and truly you are a gift to the people around you , being infectious with your positivity.

    May your Tribe increase 🙌🏼

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